CPWizard for Dummies

For some reason the topic i started last month is locked so i have to start a new one, ref old topic http://www.gameex.info/forums/topic/11592-resolved-cpwizard-modify-text-displayed-in-control-panel/page__hl__cpwizard__st__60

Okay, so after stepping away from this and coming back after a few weeks and running nearly same setup on a different machine I'm about to lose what's left of my mind trying to figure out how in the h*ll I ever got this to work before.  Unfortunately I made the mistake of not copying and saving out my configuration file for cpwizard.  I should have just punted by now but it's become more of a battle i'd like to win and I have spent embarassing hours trying every combination of settings I can try but nothing works as hoped.

I have 2 monitors, monitor "2" is default".  When I start a game on monitor 2 within gameex i want the control panel from cpwizard to appear on monitor 1 and stay there until i quit the game. Sounds simple right?

I'm attaching my current desperate attempt at making this work, hopefully someone can give me a simple explanation for why it's not working.  With this current config I experience the following:

1. start game on monitor 2
2. cpanel from cpwizard shows up on monitor 1 for a few seconds then disappears
3. game comes back on monitor 2 then disappears after a few seconds
4. cpanel from cpsizard reappears on mointor 1 for a few seconds then disappears
5. game comes back on monitor 2.

Thanks in advance to whomever, hopefully headkaze, can once more help me with this.  I promise to save the config file next time around and copy to a secure location.  Also, if anyone reading this is currently successfully using cpwizard the way they'd like and wouldn't mind explaining their setup and attaching the .ini file, might be helpful.